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CalmRelay filters toxic language from messages while preserving what matters. Whether you're navigating co-parenting, workplace conflict, or difficult relationships — communicate without the emotional toll.
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See the Difference
Pick a scenario and adjust the shield strength to see how CalmRelay transforms toxic messages.
"What the f***!? Unbelievable. You're switching days on me AGAIN? I can't believe it. Every time I make plans you pull this garbage. Please pick them up on Friday at 3pm after school and take them to the dentist at the very least. The kids were supposed to be with you this weekend and now I have to rearrange everything. I had plans. Do you even care? Of course not. This is exactly why I can't count on you for anything. Why can't you get your s*** together? Figure out your priorities because I'm done."
"What the f***!? Unbelievable. You're switching days on me AGAIN? I can't believe it. Every time I make plans you pull this garbage. Please pick them up on Friday at 3pm after school and take them to the dentist at the very least. The kids were supposed to be with you this weekend and now I have to rearrange everything. I had plans. Do you even care? Of course not. This is exactly why I can't count on you for anything. Why can't you get your s*** together? Figure out your priorities because I'm done."
"What the f***!? Unbelievable. You're switching days on me AGAIN? I can't believe it. Every time I make plans you pull this garbage. Please pick them up on Friday at 3pm after school and take them to the dentist at the very least. The kids were supposed to be with you this weekend and now I have to rearrange everything. I had plans. Do you even care? Of course not. This is exactly why I can't count on you for anything. Why can't you get your s*** together? Figure out your priorities because I'm done."
"What the f***!? Unbelievable. You're switching days on me AGAIN? I can't believe it. Every time I make plans you pull this garbage. Please pick them up on Friday at 3pm after school and take them to the dentist at the very least. The kids were supposed to be with you this weekend and now I have to rearrange everything. I had plans. Do you even care? Of course not. This is exactly why I can't count on you for anything. Why can't you get your s*** together? Figure out your priorities because I'm done."
Transforms messages into professional, neutral communication.
You control the filter level for each contact. Start strict, dial back as trust builds.
How It Works
Three simple steps to protect your peace of mind
Get a proxy phone number
We assign you a unique phone number to use with high-conflict contacts. Your real number stays private.
Messages are filtered automatically
Our AI removes emotional attacks, guilt trips, and irrelevant drama — before you see them.
Reply within the app or via SMS
Respond directly from CalmRelay or via text. Set your filter level and decide whether to keep originals.
Built for Real Situations
Whether personal or professional, CalmRelay helps you communicate without the emotional toll
Co-Parents & Blended Families
Coordinate custody schedules and child-related matters without the emotional baggage.
Workplace Conflicts
Navigate difficult colleagues or HR situations professionally while protecting your mental health.
Therapists & Counselors
Recommend to clients in high-conflict situations to maintain progress between sessions.
Legal & Mediation
Lawyers and mediators can recommend CalmRelay to reduce escalation and create cleaner documentation.
Difficult Family Relationships
Stay connected with challenging family members without absorbing their negativity.
Dispute Resolution
Give parties a neutral channel that reduces emotional flare-ups and keeps focus on resolution.
Why CalmRelay?
Trusted by individuals and professionals to manage high-conflict communication
Peace of Mind
Never dread opening a message again. Our filtering shields you from unnecessary emotional attacks while preserving important information.
Privacy Control
Take control of who has your real contact information. Share your CalmRelay proxy details instead to maintain boundaries.
Stay Connected
Maintain records of all communication for legal purposes while setting healthy boundaries. Original messages are safely stored.
Simple Pricing
Start free, upgrade when you need more
Free Trial
Experience CalmRelay risk-free
- 60-day free trial
- Up to 10 messages per month
- AI-powered message filtering
- Proxy phone number
- All filter levels included
Pro
For ongoing communication needs
- 500 messages per month
- Everything in Free, plus:
- Priority message processing
- Outbound message rewriting
- Message retention controls
- Priority support
No credit card required to start. Cancel anytime.
Trusted by Many
Hear from people who've found peace with CalmRelay
"CalmRelay has completely changed how I interact with my ex. Instead of dreading every message, I can focus on coordinating for our children."
Melissa K.
Co-parent of 2
"I recommend CalmRelay to clients dealing with high-conflict divorces. It helps them stay focused on logistics rather than getting pulled into emotional exchanges."
Dr. Sarah Chen
Family Therapist
"Managing a hostile workplace situation was destroying my mental health. CalmRelay filters out the personal attacks so I can focus on the work."
Marcus T.
HR Professional
"As a mediator, I've seen how raw emotional exchanges can derail dispute resolution. CalmRelay gives my clients a tool to communicate more effectively."
Jennifer Okafor
Dispute Resolution Specialist
Frequently Asked Questions
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